Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Maintaining intimacy with your partner

Relationships without intimacy can lose their spark pretty quickly. Yet maintaining intimacy takes a great deal of personal commitment, beyond small talk and sexual pleasure. True intimacy in a relationship needs to be nurtured at a deeper level. Couples often fall into a rut after the initial phase of getting to know one another. People find that they know how the other person believes, feels, and acts. They’ve discussed everything from politics to favorite flavor of ice cream and back again, and feel that there isn’t really all that much to find out anymore. When a topic comes up, one partner may assume that he or she already knows what the other thinks of it.

As people, we are constantly experiencing new things and adapting to different situations. We don’t stay the same person forever, and so a relationship must be a continuous journey of discovery. For intimacy, it is not enough to get to know a person once and for all. Intimacy needs to be fed. For this, couples need to take deliberate action to preserve their intimacy and avoid becoming just roommates. One important thing is to set aside some time each week to really talk with no distractions. This time is not to talk about the bills, or who washed more dishes. This is time to sit down and enjoy each other. Sharing your thoughts and feelings, discusses things you’ve read or noticed, and just enjoying hearing what the other person has to say – these can help to maintain a strong sense of intimacy.

Intimacy of spouses

It is not a secret that when people meet each other at the first time they are excited with each other and they know nothing about each other and that is the best treasure of these relationships. People are worried and they are exited and so every touch is like and discharge and it gives people strong and bright emotions. Though, with the laps of time there are no discharges and there is no chemistry between people and they get bored with each other and with the intimacy they have. if people are married and they have spend a great number of years together they know every next move of the person they are married to and so there is no excitement and no passion for them anymore. Though, this problem can be solved in case people need it t be solved. It will take some efforts of them but I guess it worth those efforts. People cat try to bring something new to their intimacy or remember something they have already forgotten and this will bring the former passion to their relationship. That is one of possible ways.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Gender differences

Sexologists say that people have periods during the day that are the best periods for people to make out. But, the problem is those periods are different for men and women and it’s hard to make those match each other. According to this theory people have only two hours a day to have a great sex. See, women are more active in the evening, from this point of view, but things are different for men. They prefer sex in the morning while they are not tired and while they are full of energy. But it is rather hard to make women feel like making out in the morning. And the same problem will face women in the evening. Men are tired with the day and work they do and all they need is rest, in most cases. But, according to that intimacy schedule female and male activities match at nine o’clock in the morning and nine o’clock in the evening. And those are best periods for people to make out. Well, it is up to you whether you believe it or not. It is just another theory and it is about people and we know that people are different so…

Friday, January 30, 2009

Sex and Wickedness

The willing to teach the wrong and punish inattentive is to the fullest. Men and in the head does not come as often ladies were carrying out their night despite another. Split up could then turn into anything and even the beginning of a great sense of light and the one who taking revenge will never erased from memory, but on the first night that occurred two hours after the acquaintance, a woman will enjoy revenge.
Tip: The sweet victory - finding themselves in the embrace of another man, do not even remember, why you were there. So relax and have fun at the whole roll. When you to the object for which they had started a vengeance, inscrutability and independence, it certainly regret about his hasty action. And do not confess - this is not a person.
Anyway, I do not have any now and I am absolutely free. So you think you weigh all the pros and cons sex. And carefully evaluate their new friend in terms of continuing the relationship. If the test they passed and you decide that it is suitable for the role of your men, then you are going to visit him. And in the morning, barely opened his eyes, already plans to build a joint future, for next weekend and on holidays, which will be one year.
Tip: It is not the fact that your man is willing to share your plans or have already realized that you - his woman. But you do not rush to conclusions. One night is still not a guarantee of your emergency wedding. But it may well be the beginning of a new novel. The greatest experience "He needed just sex" - a favorite accusation that we throw the men, even lived with them for years.